Thursday, September 6, 2012

Dear Friends,
The excitement for Tommy's Nite Out III seems to be building.  Our family is so blessed and humbled by the show of love from all of those involved with this endeavor.  It seems to grow with each event.  I am truly excited to see so many old friends that are planning on coming; as well as, new friends that have heard about this great party!  This will be a unique gathering and fun for all.

The steering committee and the multiple sub committees have worked tirelessly to create a special evening for everyone's enjoyment.  It is amazing to think that this all started three and a half years ago in Dallas, Texas when I was still at Craig Hospital in Colorado.  Someone recently asked why they called it Tommy's Nite Out when I was not able to attend.  Robyn and I both said it was the spirit of our friends.  They knew that even though I would not physically be there,  I would love being in the middle of all my friends having fun.  I am so glad that I have been able to attend all three events here in Fayetteville, and to be a part of this great gathering of folks!

Ephesians 3:17-19 "...And I pray that you, being rooted and established in love, may have power, together with all the saints, to grasp how wide and long and high and deep is the love of Christ, and to know this love that surpasses knowledge-that you may be filled to the measure of all the fullness of God."


Sunday, July 22, 2012

Hello all,
Tommy and I are so excited to tell you that, believe it or not, there is going to be a Tommy's Nite Out on September 14th!  We went to the first meeting last Thursday night at Tony Sherman, our fearless leader's, office.  Tommy and I were running late and when we walked in we were stunned at the people  gathered in the conference room.  The excitement level in the room is high anticipating the fun we are going to have at the Pendergraft barn.  After the meeting, Tommy and I told each other that we both cried on the inside because we are so humbled by our wonderful friends.  We are blessed beyond measure, and as always we are witnesses of God's love through the faithfulness of our friends.
Tommy and Robyn
Ephesians 3:17-21  

Friday, June 29, 2012

OK people, this is our 5th day of over 100 degree temperatures.  Since my injury, my body temperature is about 96 degrees.  THEREFORE, I love the hot weather.  However, those around me are dropping like flies.  Have a good weekend.

Saturday, June 23, 2012

Tommy and I had a couple of T-sips in from Austin last week.  Gordon and Sarah McHaney.  Sarah and I went to college together, and the couple became our friends after we married.  Gordon and Sarah LOVE the outdoors so they came to beautiful Arkansas to fish the White River, canoe the Buffalo, and to experience Eureka Springs.  On their way back home to Texas they stayed with us for the night.  Tommy missed his calling as a tour guide because he loves showing off Fayetteville to guests!  We loaded up the magic van and showed the McHaneys Razorback Stadium, Baum Stadium, U of A campus, Dickson street, and the beautiful houses in the historic district.  We initiated them into our way of life when the power on Tommy's ventilator got very low.  I was driving, and the McHaneys were biting their lips with anxiety.  Sarah is definitely one to have in an emergency, she just took the "ambu" bag and was on the ready.  She had to use it on Tommy while I changed tubing from the chair ventilator to the bedside ventilator.  I wish I had that on video, it was classic.  Thank you Gordon and Sarah for your help and friendship!


Wednesday, June 20, 2012

Dear Friends,

I have had "good intentions" of sustaining regular blog updates.  Obviously,  I have not met that goal this year.  Believe it or not I have been very busy trying to juggle health care and business.  The good news is I have been relatively healthy, and I have been able to participate regularly at work with a reduced schedule.

Just recently, I was blessed with a new wheelchair that will help with my quality of life and nagging health issues.  For instance, I was experiencing chronic head pains associated with the head rest and my positioning within the chair.  This chair, with a few adjustments to the head rest, seems to have decreased my issues with head pain.  Also, this new chair allows me to recline completely which is good for doctor visits, blood pressure issues, and pressure point redistribution.

Speaking of doctor visits, a few months ago I visited Dr. Luke Knox, my neurosurgeon, to make sure that the snap, crackle and pops I was hearing were not just a loose screw in my head.  Dr. Knox assured me that was not the case, and in fact four times during our hour session he would get right in my face and tell me "how good I looked."  After my usual answer of "well, of course I do"  I got serious and asked, "what did you expect for me to look like?"  His answer was simply that many times people in my condition, especially ventilator dependent people, are chronically ill, slumped over and generally do not look healthy.  The reason I am mentioning this to you is not to just brag about my good looks, but also to let you know that "I look healthy" because of your generosity which allows me to have great care.  I have been so blessed to have people who are not only caregivers, but who also generally care about me and my family.  When you need as much care as I require this is a tremendous blessing for the whole family.

I also wanted to let you know that besides work and doctor's visits, that we have been able to make a trip.  I actually wrote this blog from Florida!  Through the incredible generosity of a man who himself is wheelchair dependent, and I have yet to meet, our family has been able to take our first vacation since my accident.  As our boys get older and they juggle summer jobs, it is such a treat to have all of us together at the same time.

So for now please know that Robyn, Ross, Jack and I continue to live our life one day at a time.  Anytime we may feel discouraged or frustrated all we have to do is count our blessings and rejoice.  We are still amazed that after three and a half years our friends continue to reach out to us in different ways.  We see first hand how God in His mysterious and infinite wisdom weaves our lives with other's lives for blessing and Glory to His name.  We can not believe that again our friends have decided to throw another Tommy's Night Out in order to help us with our expenses.  As always we pray that those who touch our lives in any way are blessed with the knowledge that God is present in each of our lives and circumstances.


"Be joyful always; pray continually; give thanks in all circumstances, for this is God's will for you in Christ Jesus."
1Thessalonians 5:18